Advice on how to break up?

I wrote a question just a little while ago but I also have another one on the same subject. The basics are I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and now I feel like I want to get out of it. The problem is I think I am falling for his best friend. Before I break up with my boyfriend (if I do) should I tell his best friend about the situation because he is a good listener and good at giving advice, I obviously won't tell him I like him.


What do you think?Advice on how to break up?
I've been in a situation between two friends before. It wasn't about breaking up but i used to go to my boyfriend's best friend whenever i was having a problem with my boyfriend. While i thought it was helpful to have somebody to talk to, because he also was a good listener, it ended up just causing problems between my boyfriend and his friend.





its not fair to put his friend in the middle.





as far as your feelings go...maybe don't say anything until to figure things out with your boyfriend, otherwise i think you're just make things more complicatedAdvice on how to break up?
OH MY GOD! teenage movie cliche. falling for the best friend. I am close friends with some guys and they say the worst feeling in the world is knowing the girl chose them and then wanted another. I am not sure if it is the best idea to tell his best friend you are falling for him. That might lead to a fault in their friendship and the friendship between you and that guy as well. Also, it may not guarentee that the best friend is going to fall for you as well...'; bro's before ho's'; saying...sometimes does apply in certain situations. If you really dont like the boy you are dating i recommend playing it out for a little while then everntually breaking up. DO NOT do it via text message or computer. I recommend face to face or telephone.





good luck
Tell your boyfriend first of all SLOWLY. say this calmly '; We have been going out for a while now right..... and I was thinking maybe we should.. ya know see other people... I mean we could still be friends';


He might take it hard or not, But if it works out(with breaking up) after a day or so go to his Best Friend and Tell him '; I'm just gonna say it proud, I like you'; (well at least try saying this) and tell him somewhere away from school or watever. Like the park or on the phone. But I wish u the best of good LUCK.