Tuesday, July 27, 2010

How do i get better at giving advice to friends?

they say everything thats troubling them and as a friend, i want to give advice but i NEVER know what to say. i mean, i have no good advice or solutions or words of comfort for them. when i do say something, it sounds so fake but i dont mean it like that. i always feel really bad when this happens. how should i fix this? did this happen to any of you too, as the listener or the talker?How do i get better at giving advice to friends?
As the listener, always listen to their problems, never interrupt them when they are telling a story. When you give the advice, relate to your own experiences and I am sure that we all gone through the same thing such as friends issues, family problems and other personal ones as well.

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