Guys: What advice would you give women to understand more about how guys think?

I didn't grow up with close relationships with men, so now that I'm trying to date them, I feel like perhaps I don't understand guys at all.Guys: What advice would you give women to understand more about how guys think?
I love how Adam is trying to speak for ALL guys...anyway a lot of guys know what they want and go out there and get it,i know plenty of guys like this but of course its because WE(me and them) have a good head on our shoulders.When you make good decisions in life and not take advice from the wrong people you get ahead and that is a fact.Some guys can be hard to read and hard to understand because they make themselves hard to understand on purpose or just have a very low IQ and don't know how to act around women or society just in general.Me now i am easy to understand because i don't play these baby games society teaches some people to do.I don't follow any set of dating rules that is in all these books or on the radio,T.V. etc which i find ridiculous and appalling.You can't treat ALL guys the same just like you can't treat ALL women the same.I have met a lot of guys who claim all girls are the same and ive met girls who claim all guys are the same.I don't know where they are getting this attitude from but i have met plenty of people and NONE of them seem the same to me at all,even in views about dating etc.Hun don't try to read too much into what a guy is thinking.Just be yourself and see if he opens up to you and talks about himself.You will understand more about him as you get to know him,don't rush into dating like other people do it's a mistake made by people every day.If a guy is not being honest with you about who is he all you can do is move on and find someone better.I admit when i was younger i had trouble understanding girls but now that i'm 27 i know a lot more,but the thing is i don't treat ALL girls the same because i know a lot of girls and none of them are the same.They are all sensitive which is common in SOME girls not all because i have met some girls who were not sensitive at all...they just didn't care about life anymore or anything.Most of my female friends enjoy hearing me tell them i love them(as a friend of course) and doing sweet things for them.They are like tell me again how much you care for me.All of them love the attention i give them(i'm not saying they are desperate they just like being feeled wanted)The best thing to do is to be sweet to a guy you like and see what goes from there.As i said before it's good not to play baby games with a guy and play hard to get all the time.Just be upfront and vivid with your details.I'm sorry i get really deep in thought about a lot of things,i'm sure not everyone agrees with my statements but i stand by with what i believe in.I wish more people would stop following these set of made up rules like a puppet on a string.Trust me though hun guys are easier to understand than you think.the ones that don't know what they want in life you might want to just be friends and not get romantically involved with them.I'm not being mean in any way i'm just saying they might end up hurting you emotionally without meaning to because they are undecided of what to do.Get to know a small group of guys and find out things from each of them and you'll see how most of them have different views or ideas about what they want.If you met a lot of my friends you would see they are not hard to understand because they are upfront and don't play baby games.Get to know someone like that and you will be fine.A lucky guy someday is goind to have you in his arms and he won't want to ever let you go.Good luck on finding the man of your dreams i wish you well.Guys: What advice would you give women to understand more about how guys think?
haha whats not to get?





all we want is beer and a bj in the morning hahaha JUST KIDDING





idk theres alot more to us than one would think...youd be suprised what guys feel...just DO NOT try to be something other than yourself...as cliche as it may sound...if your yourself your bound to find one...also DO NOT be confrontational about stuff...its a big no no for me..but maybe thats just me...its ok if you say ';oh that bothered me'; or something like that but DO NOT be confrontational
Not trying to be funny or anything.


But understanding guys, where to start..





Us guys dont even understand ourselves, we dont even know what we're thinking half of the time.
I would actually recommend reading one of those mars/venus books. I learned a lot from those.
very few people if any really understand how guys think.