I mean I am very sweet and caring but it seems ppl take advantage of that and when they do they see the bad side of me... i mean if the person is nice they will receive the same back from me... but I really want to be able to talk to ppl I'm really not the time to approach and i am very quite what should i do any pointers pleaseeeeeee!!!How do I become more sociable? Please give me advice on what to do?
Don't worry about it, if ur really sweet, it's pretty hard to hide it. :)
If people take advantage of you, then stand up for urself, but in a non-offensive way. If they really get annoying, don't be afraid to tell them that.
Maybe you're surrounded by the wrong type of people. When you find people that are compatible with you, talking with them would be as easy as anything. Find people to talk to that have the same interests as you, are nice, etc...There are friends for everyone, and if you feel like someone isn't meant to be your friend, don't force yourself to talk to them.
Some tips: How you present yourself is how people see you. Act confident. Don't be afraid to say what's on your mind, whether it's a joke or an opinion. If it comes out stupid, laugh it off. Everyone has their moments. Keep a positive attitude. :)How do I become more sociable? Please give me advice on what to do?
The best thing you can really do is try to relax. I'm a lot like you,I'm a very nice person but I'm also quite shy. So I just try to come out of my shell a little more each time.I know it might seem really daunting but it's just something you'll have to do if you want to over-come your shyness. Just remember,anything is possible if you want it badly enough. I hope this has helped a bit. Good luck and best wishes for the future x
Well, people can't really give you advice on how to talk to people?
All you have to do is in gage in a conversation with another person. Make it interesting, and keep the conversation flowing. If your too nice, and they seem to take advantage of you tell them to stop. Or just overall, stop talking to that person, and move to another person.
sometimes it takes more than being nice.
you can become closer to others when you open up to them on past experiences and feelings. itll make you seem like the grounded person you are and they can feel like they could open up to you.
if your quiet then use that to your advantage. you can be quiet in a sort of interesting way. like...make up for it by smiling and being cute and flirty. make sure you take care of yourself and appearance. itll make you seem more approachable. but dont change yourself because then youll make friends who like you for who you are :)
girl i am also very sweet and caring.
but people have never exactly taken advantage of me seeing my bad side.
honestly just don't be afraid of who you truly are.
if you love music.. join the band, join choir.
if you love to draw.. join art.
if you love to act.. join theatre.
what you really need to do is put yourself out there, do the things you love, and get involved.
figure out what interests you and actually do something that relates to that.
i am a very sweet person who is known as ';the nicest girl'; to almost everyone in know.
and yet.. i am also the most involved that they know.
i'm in the band, i'm in a play, i volunteer.
go out there, and do something bold.
something that would really change your life in a good way. :]
good luck!
I Used to be really quiet when i was younger, but once i got older i realized that sometimes you just need to be yourself. It doesnt matter if ur sociable, if you just be yourself then people will start to notice and before you know it, you'll instantly become a little social butterfly lol :)
I Hope that Helps :)
Me too, I guess.
I got sick of people taking advantage of me, so I made sure to try not to show that I trusted anyone. Then a whole load of them got sick of me being a ';cold hearted b!tch'; and ditched me. But the ones that stuck around... now they're good friends. I like those ones.
At the end of the day, if you're quiet, you're quiet. That's not gonna change too easily. It's a part of you.
You have to be more convifident in yourself. Every day by looking in the mirror and saying 1 thing about what you like about yourself make u more happy in your skin. Be more open to people even asking for a pen or somthing starts a convo with them don't be scared to talk to people
okay, have you tried drama classes? they really help some people become more confident and therefore more sociable. I would also suggest you join a club or organization so you can meet new people who like what you like.
I have the same problem.
Be true to yourself and that's all that really matters.True friends will see that and stick with you no matter how sociable you are.Let yourself go and release your silly side, everyone loves funny person.
The best way is to just practice. I found a list of ideas online at:
http://www.wikihow.com/Socialize,-Be-Fun鈥?/a>
That should give you a lot of help getting started. Enjoy meeting people!
first off be your self
its sounds to me like your trying to impress a certain type of person
everyone is diffirent in there own way being something your not will turn you into something your not comfortable
eat some smoked dog and then wash ur mouth out with mouth wash and then go do the cha cha like a sissy girl
You're not made that way. Be yourself.
same here sry
be funny but not crazy. people like humor
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